Are You Tired of Rejection & Ready to Have the Love, Trust, Affection & Desire You Want?

Work With Dan 2019-11-24T10:14:49+00:00

Do you want to feel more confident, clear and masculine in how you handle conflict and express yourself?

Here is what WORKS even when you feel like you’re the only one trying!

You have 2 options:

  1. Keep doing what you’re doing and getting what you’re getting and HOPE something changes.
  2. Stop doing what you’re doing, bring something NEW into your relationship and MAKE the changes you want to make.

If you are a man who is more inclined to take option #2, then read on. You’re about to hear some things you may not have heard before.

“When I just try to kiss her goodnight she turns her lips away from me and scrunches her face. It kills me and I’ve lost all confidence in dealing with her lack of trust and affection.”

  • Does this sound familiar?
  • Have you felt dismissed or rejected like this in any other ways?
  • How long has it been going on?

The longer it has been going on, the more urgent it is that you start taking action now. Let’s not settle for that any longer, okay?

Most women who consistently act distant, cold, and/or dismissive have already begun thinking about the possible end of their relationship.

In fact, most women tell me they start making their plans about 2 YEARS before they actually pull the trigger. And it all starts with a subtle a pattern of rejection, detachment, distance and disrespect.

Why don’t they TELL us what they are feeling?

What’s going on inside their heads and why can’t they explain it to us?

It’s unanimous. I hear it over and over again.

They believe that’s what they’ve been doing all along!

And men somehow miss the message.

Here are Three Ways I Can Help You Immediately

Number One

Learn the real reasons she is unable to explain what is going on with her. This gives you a perspective and a powerful ability you didn’t know you have.

wife and husband sleep on opposite sides of the bedYour frustration and anger will subside when you realize the truth. She isn’t trying to hurt you. Really. She is trying to protect herself, and she can’t explain to you why she is scared and uncertain.

I will teach you:

  • Why her reactions to you are almost involuntary and how you can change her reactions by showing her more confidence
  • Why it embarrasses her to admit she wants to feel more masculine strength from you
  • Why you should STOP trying to get her to talk about it and what to do instead
  • How to stop “doing” things for brownie points and start “being” different to create natural attraction

Number Two

Discover the real reasons that women are so GOOD at stripping away our confidence and why that makes them angry and anxious. Learn the tricks to getting your mojo back.

wife criticising and disrespecting husbandYou may be like most of us good guys. You’ve had a lifetime of pleasing women – teachers, girlfriends, and mom.

Now you’re in a spot where the magic has worn off and there’s nothing you can do or say that’s right. The one committed, romantic partner in your life has you walking on eggshells trying to not screw up. Your confidence is gone.

Don’t worry. You’re not alone and you WILL get it back.

I will help you:

  • Understand for the first time why guys fall into this trap and how we get out of it by busting myths about what women want
  • See how men trade their confidence for female approval – why women hate it – and how to reverse the situation
  • Adopt a whole new thought process that spikes your confidence with ANY woman and creates instant attraction
  • Learn to use your calm, deliberate manly mojo to respond with reassuring strength instead of fear

Number Three

Learn the secret to creating emotional safety for her and maintaining your attractiveness to her – or ANY woman.

Confident, masculine man and husbandI don’t use the word “secret” lightly. When I had more advanced men explain this to me I was blown away.
How did we get through childhood without SOMEBODY explaining these concepts to us? What is our role supposed to be? What do women really want?
The sad truth is most of us didn’t have a male role model who was prepared to teach us.

I will teach you:

  • What emotional safety means to a woman and how you’ll make her feel safe to be attracted to you again
  • How YOUR OWN feelings of self-esteem and confidence drastically affect her ability to feel emotional safety and attracted to you
  • Exactly the kind of masculine (not “macho”) energy from you that allows her to feel safe and sexual
  • Why she craves your masculine desire but is totally turned off by male neediness – and HOW she feels the difference, so you’ll never get it wrong again

This is HOW we are Going to do This

The 90-Day Masculine Confidence Intensive

This is a personal, practical and intense coaching program. You get the insight, confidence and skills you need to stop the downward slide of your relationship. You learn to create a safe, masculine energy which women find irresistible. Your confidence soars. Then you invite her to join you in the love, trust and affection you BOTH want.

This program is for a committed man who is ready to get serious.

You know that the key to your success lies within your own hands. You are smart, persistent and driven. You want what you want and you will no longer settle for “good enough”.

The program includes 12 private phone sessions lasting up to 1 hour each. We follow a customized process focused on YOUR needs and YOUR goals. We assess your progress each week and make strategic decisions based on YOUR situation.

You will expand your mind and become excited about learning again. You will take consistent action with confidence and become the creator of the life you want!

Here are the results you can expect to gain from the program.

1. Stop being wishy-washy and become more focused and directed. Feel anchored by stronger, clearer personal values and your non-negotiable boundaries

This is your foundation. You nail down the expectations you have of yourself and for yourself in relationships – especially with women.

We go through an eye-opening process that makes you wonder why you haven’t done this yet.

2. Develop control over your thoughts and emotions like never before. This sets you free from anxiety and has the most immediate impact on your relationship!

Anything is possible when you focus on the things YOU can change and influence – with or without permission from others.

You get control over your own thoughts. You feel more calm and confident with your strong emotions.

You see QUICK results in how others react to you. This step begins building your feelings of confidence fast.

3. Become a master of the masculine and feminine dance. Learn how your actions have been helping or hurting her ability to love, trust and desire you.

We uncover the truth about the roles you each play in your relationship.

You learn about “polarity” and how the lack of it makes your relationship struggle.

You create feelings of presence and connection which make her WANT to be more trusting and affectionate.

You become skilled in recognizing and CHANGING the old tactics which used to push her away.

4. Build and sustain your own masculine confidence at a high level. Protect against attacks on your confidence and learn how to counter-attack every time.

Confidence is not something you’re born with.

You learn why confidence is a simple thought process and is all about your mental game.

Attractive, confident masculinity isn’t about “doing” anything to GET something from women. It’s about who you are “being”.

You learn how to BE who you want to be and say what you want to say – with strength and confidence. You learn to do this from a genuine place of love and compassion for her.

THIS is how she will relax and feel attracted to you again.

5. Become more connected, aware and present – with everyone. You develop new skills and knowledge about the 4 critical intimate relationship needs. This is a critical step in your ability to build attraction and desire.

Everyone has basic emotional needs we want filled.

You become aware of and connected with her needs. Discover how she feels neglected and help her feel more supported, understood and connected. Learn how to communicate your needs in ways that attract her.

You are clear about your role in the relationship and how to provide more leadership toward intimacy.

You are bold and open with her as you create more emotional, intellectual, spiritual and physical intimacy.

6. Stop the destructive emotions of anger and resentment which keep you from moving forward. These emotions cause you to say and do destructive things that pull you backward. You learn how to crush them and move on with purpose.

Anger and resentment will ruin your efforts repair your relationship – every single time.

You face these feelings with honesty and learn how to let them go.

You change the negative thoughts which create anger and resentment. Then you replace them with compassionate, loving thoughts. Handle conflict like a man and watch how well she responds to you.

Even if you get a half-hearted kiss goodnight you will be strong, attractive and masculine.

7. Stop being outcome dependent and too invested in her reactions and her approval. You discover the power in letting go of your of your attachment to her attitudes and her choices. Your peace and contentment come from you being confident in YOUR attitude and choices.

A CONFIDENT man knows his values, what he wants and where he’s going in his life.

You learn how to think, speak and act according to your values without worrying about reactions from others. This is where your intimate relationship may be suffering. Are you too dependent on her reactions and care too much about what she thinks about you?

You become clear and confident in your ability to invite her to another level of relationship. You will WANT her to join you. But you don’t NEED her to join you.

While you care about what she thinks, feels and dreams, you are no longer controlled by what she thinks about YOU. Your sense of security, confidence and self-worth now comes from within you.

This is the most attractive YOU!

I know. It sounds intense – maybe a little scary. It is!

That’s where all the good stuff in life lives. The good stuff lies outside your comfort zone.

You will realize all seven of those benefits when you loosen your grip on what you currently know and what you’ve always done.

It requires a bold man who is ready for a little adventure.

APPLY HERE for your free consultation call

  

Are you thinking this might not help your situation? Each of these regular guys thought the same thing – at first.

“My marriage turmoil was an extremely emotional and trying time. My wife started to lose interest in me and I reacted in a way that turned her off even more. My need to please and fix things nearly ended our relationship.

Dan Dore’s compassionate and insightful coaching helped me understand the reasons she was dissatisfied, what I could (and couldn’t) do about it, and how her reaction to me depended on my attitude and self worth.

Dan will help you through this important process to develop your true self worth and leave behind the unattractive neediness and co-dependency.

Thank you Dan for being such a wonderful coach and friend.”
Eric, Sydney, Australia

“After spending many days, even weeks, agonizing over my crumbling marriage, I finally found the courage to reach out to GoodGuys2GreatMen. I had a desperate hope that my relationship would be saved and that I would be happy again with my family. What I didn’t realize, was that I had fallen into the same relationship cycle where so many men have found themselves – hopeless, and living a life where my wife was in charge of my happiness and where she became my emotional centre.

Dan Dore was my coach throughout the entire process. I shed many tears with Dan, as well as many laughs. I experienced emotional highs and lows as I followed Dan’s direction down a path that was leading me to become a Great Man.

I found true happiness and self worth that comes from me, and nobody else. I have found life to be a wonderful gift that I am in charge of.

I remember so many times throughout the process where I learned so much about myself and how I came to be the guy I was when I reached out. Every session with Dan was met with excitement and anticipation as I knew, and felt the forward momentum of the program heading onward.

When I look back now, I know that this program was one of the best life decisions I have ever made. My confidence, self worth and happiness are where they should have been years ago. I grow every day and look forward to whatever life throws towards me.

I feel Dan has become a friend with whom I will always get honesty, compassion, and understanding. I am grateful for the wisdom and encouragement he gave me, as well as from the other men in the program.”
Robin, Alberta, Canada

When I think about everything in my adult life, the coaching with you was a huge point of reference, reflection, genesis….a bunch of words that would indicate the time I spent with you was a very important thing in my life.

I came to GoodGuys2GreatMen so confused about why, after all the good things I do, doesn’t good stuff happen to me, primarily in the relationship with my wife.

I was hoping to find ways to “trick” or “con” or “game” my wife into wanting me again. What I got was even better.

Dan, I couldn’t have asked for a better guide through this. You are not someone who has read this in a book, you actually went through it yourself. You made me question everything about myself.

When I finally shook the “daze” and “fog” away from my brain, you built me back up.

I feel, scratch that, I am a man that is honest and strong in his convictions.

My relationship with my wife has improved greatly, my work has improved, and I have clear missions and guidelines for my life.

The world doesn’t happen to me, I happen to the world.  I went in a scared and cocky man and came out strong enough to be gentle. Thanks for all you did my friend.  Always in debt to you,
Tony, Tennessee, US

“I never knew pain the level I experienced when my wife said she was moving out. The confusion, sadness, depression, ambivalence, anger, stress, etc. that came with her disconnecting from me was overwhelming to the point of physical fatigue, sleepless nights, nausea, and sub-par work performance.

I lost weight quickly from not eating and I had big arguments with family members who were trying to make sense of everything, too. Throw in the removal of any sex whatsoever and it was hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Talking to friends and family and reading articles on the internet didn’t help much either.

My first call to Dan came just a few weeks into my world crashing around me and I’ll never forget it: I wrote down as much as I could during that call and felt a renewed sense of pride, hope and happiness that changed my mood. Dan immediately became the number one source of trust and direction for me during those hardest of times.

Straight after that first call I was able to go out and ate a big meal for the first time in 7 days – that’s how impactful that call was for me!

The email and phone support was so helpful during those very rough first months. After talking with you, I returned to the gym, and found a new confidence in connecting with everyone in my world – from the stranger at the grocery store, the hair-cutter, the tattoo-artist to all my friends and family.

I took a job promotion. I started believing in myself rather than relying on someone else for that. The reading material kept me focused and busy and forced me to deal with issues I may have never otherwise faced.

I feel like I know myself much better, but also, I’ve learned this is a process that does not and should not come to an end – there is always more to learn and working on yourself is truly an art and science that can be both painful and joyful, but totally necessary. This work radically changed to my relationship with my kids, to my work and to my family too.

For what it’s worth, after 9 months, my wife has recently told me “I’m perfect” and that she does not want a divorce. We are having good sex again. She is interested in moving back home. Now the question is whether or not that is something I want in my life. Having a response like this from her wasn’t my intended goal, though admittedly in the beginning it’s all I really wanted.

By no means are things perfect and I still make mistakes, but I’m able to recognize behaviors and apply meaning to them without feeling confused and reacting in a way that only causes more pain. Thanks Dan!”  
Russ, Virginia, US

APPLY HERE for your free consultation call

 

 

Hey,

I see you’ve read this far on the page. That either means you are bored silly or actually considering doing some important work.

I want to thank you for your trust and your interest. This is important work.

You’ve made it this far which means the odds are very good. You have the mindset, persistence and focus needed to be wildly successful.

You have the ability “turn the switch on” and begin seeing and feeling your true value. You are ready to move forward with confidence and a renewed sense of optimism.

This is the source of your personal power and ALL of your progress to come.

You’ve got what it takes to step up and do whatever you want to do and have whatever you want to have.

Let’s make that happen.

Answer these few short questions. I will read your application immediately and will respond to you within two days.

With love and respect,
Steve & Dan

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