If You Knew How To Make Your Wife More Affectionate…Would You Do It?

Published on: June 18, 2018 | Last Updated on: March 25, 2024 by Steve Horsmon

You might not be a Spiderman fan – but it doesn’t matter.

When Ben Parker was talking to his nephew Peter Parker he said,

“…your father lived by a philosophy, a principle, really. He believed that if you could do good things for other people, you had a moral obligation to do those things! That’s what’s at stake here. Not choice. Responsibility.”

If you had a “Super Power” what would you do with it?

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If you had the ability to do good things for people, would you do it?

This is a critical, mind-bending, life-changing question. A lot of guys don’t use their “Super Power”.

And you might not even know what yours is.

I do.

Here’s a hint.

You have a hidden masculine power to create trust, calmness, relaxation, safety, fun and physical attraction.

You have the power to induce those feelings in other people any time you want to. It’s not something you do – it’s a way of being.

The problem is you may not be very good at it yet. You might be like Spiderman when he first learned of his power and he made a freaking mess of everything – almost killed himself.

Here’s MY “Super Power”.

I know how to help you get really, really good at YOUR Super Power. And I’m really good at it and I absolutely LOVE doing it.

In fact, it’s my moral obligation to tell you about it. It’s not a choice – it’s my responsibility.

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Anyway, that’s all I want to say.

It’s my duty.

I’d be doing you a disservice if I didn’t encourage you to come and join us – it WILL change your life for the better.

If you want in…I assure you that this will be the best money you’ll spend this year.

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You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there – and she doesn’t WANT to…trust me on that.

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Steve Horsmon Certified Professional Men’s Coach

Steve Horsmon is a Certified Professional Life Coach and owner of Goodguys2Greatmen Relationship Coaching in Livermore, Colorado. He has appeared on well known coachign and psychology television, radio, youtube, and podcast channels related to maintaining healthy relationships. Steve provides intensely personal, action oriented coaching services for men through 1-on-1 coaching, private retreats and workshops designed to give men new knowledge, skills and mindset to achieve their relationship goals. He is a committed, lifelong mentor who teaches his clients to discover their masculine power, take bold action and create the life they want. He has written articles and guest blogs for numerous relationship and expert websites.

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