Sinking Into Depression Because Of Your Marriage?

Do you feel like you’re sinking into depression because of your marriage? I know how that feels. The darkness  and despair can feel like it’s going to swallow your happiness forever. But there is hope…

I was working with a 32-year-old client the other day when it hit me.

He is facing circumstances in his marriage that give him an impending sense of doom. His wife is growing colder by the day…disconnected, often disrespectful and frequently angry.

This is creating a constant uncertainty, anxiety and sadness within him. His thoughts are dark which creates incessant feelings of fear and guilt.

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His biggest challenge is the nagging fear that it’s all his fault. That he is broken and that he deserves everything that is happening.

What was it that “hit me”?

The one thing he needs most is exactly what my 42, 52, 62 and (yeah) 72-year-old clients need.

It’s simple but unusually difficult to achieve.

It’s being able to say “hell yes!” to this question.

“Are you okay at this very moment?”

Another way to ask this is:

“Do you believe at your core that you are an honest, loving, caring, thoughtful, considerate, loyal, hard-working man of integrity and innate value who truly loves his wife and kids?”

Because if we can’t say “hell yes!” to this, then we know where we need to start our work.

I know we say it all the time, but every man’s “happy life” begins inside himself.

He must have a clear and simple belief that he is “okay”….not broken…not a screwed up…and not toxic.

The solution to an impending sense of doom and the dark thoughts that come with is simple.

It’s the sudden, blinding realization that you’re okay and you’re going to be okay.

I talk more about it here in this video.

The One Thing a 32-Year-Old Married Man Needs Most

One of the most powerful transformations a man can make is sharpening his ability to watch himself think.

When you become a keen observer of how you’ve been thinking yourself into fear, guilt and sadness you can FINALLY remember that you’re actually okay.

Your “okayness” can then effectively deal with the reality of what’s happening. Yes…your circumstances may be incredibly sad, scary and uncertain.

But when you can face those circumstances from a foundation of emotional strength, confidence and self-respect your RESPONSES become much more effective.

Do you want a foundation like that? Clear, calm and confident?

Men who have risen above their doomed marriages did so by calm deliberate choice. We have a very effective process we take men through to gain this kind of clarity and confidence.

How To Move Towards Happiness Again

The fastest and most effective way to build your foundation is with a personal coach who has traveled this journey. If you’re ready for a life-changing deep dive conversation then let’s do it. It’s FREE. Your investment is your courageous request for help. For many men, we know that’s a big deal.

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Steve Horsmon Certified Professional Men’s Coach

Steve Horsmon is a Certified Professional Life Coach and owner of Goodguys2Greatmen Relationship Coaching in Livermore, Colorado. He has appeared on well known coachign and psychology television, radio, youtube, and podcast channels related to maintaining healthy relationships. Steve provides intensely personal, action oriented coaching services for men through 1-on-1 coaching, private retreats and workshops designed to give men new knowledge, skills and mindset to achieve their relationship goals. He is a committed, lifelong mentor who teaches his clients to discover their masculine power, take bold action and create the life they want. He has written articles and guest blogs for numerous relationship and expert websites.

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