More Intimacy: A Man’s Sexual Epiphany

By:  Steve Horsmon

A friend excitedly told me today that he had an epiphany over the weekend…but he thought that was probably just her stage name. Sorry. That one has always cracked me up!

What’s an epiphany anyway? It’s a sudden realization. It’s a spontaneous understanding. It’s a BFO – A Blinding Flash of the Obvious!

So when a man has a sexual epiphany, he has finally pieced together the puzzle that reveals the truth about his path to passion – to more intimacy. The truth about his path to passion?? I know…sounds a little much but bear with me for a minute

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Since before we were born, we men have been aware of our emerging sexuality. Sonograms have proven that we become all too “in touch” with our pleasure points right from the start.

If you are like most men, and like me, a large part of your life has been spent thinking, wondering, and worrying about how those pleasure points will be satisfied. You likely imagined that the solution was ultimately in the control of others – specifically, women.

The SEXUAL EPIPHANY I am talking about is the point in a man’s life when thinking, wondering, and worrying changes into LEADING, ROMANCING, AND ENJOYING! This epiphany does not just happen with age. It must be earned. It is SIMPLE – but not EASY. If it was easy, every guy would be doing it and would be happy with his sex life.

Your transition from horny to happy is based in your transition from expecting things from your WIFE to expecting things from YOURSELF. This personal transformation is part of the journey I call the Epiphany Ridge Trail Program which is full of surprises.

This change also brings the brand new benefit of having more self-confidence, more self-respect, and more control over your emotions.

When you discover these feelings and learn how to consistently expect them of yourself something else changes.  I hear this from frustrated wives ALL THE TIME.

Your SEX APPEAL shoots through the roof!  You have achieved the status of “sexy man”. Your wife sees you in a new attractive light which is the ONLY light that allows her to see you this way.  In fact, many other women notice as well – wherever you are. You have “morphed” into that man that other guys envy and women adore. And until now, you had no idea that it had everything to do with how you think about yourself.

What happened to this man? He is no longer an unattractive, adolescent minded guy who’s emotional and physical satisfaction are controlled by others and what he can get from them. What happened was his epiphany!

He is a man who now knows that his old sexual neediness came from a place of weakness. His new strength is an aura of masculine confidence which allows him to unapologetically admit that he WANTS passion – but clearly does not NEED it. Now THIS is attractive!

He accepts his role as leader of the “romance department” and the “good feelings department”. He is patient, loving, and giving as he shapes the new environment that HE wants to live in. These are the values he now holds as important and she loves it!

His epiphany is crystal clear. His first priority is to create and maintain an emotionally safe, trusting, and loving environment for himself and his wife. His second priority is to invite her to join him in building the powerful emotional and physical connection they have both always wanted.  All he needed was to finally get the order straight!

That’s right.  She wants exactly what he wants.  She just needs him to understand how she arrives there.

For your personal guided trip on the Epiphany Ridge Trail Program or just to chat for a while, CALL ME or EMAIL ME TODAY! The journey of 1000 miles starts with one step! You WILL improve your intimacy. And, really, it doesn’t actually feel like 1000 miles. Promise.


1 thought on “More Intimacy: A Man’s Sexual Epiphany”

  1. This is a great epiphany for all men to have. But how do they get it? That is the real question. How can a man get enough focus with himself to make these great changes. They talk the talk a lot of the time but how many of them really are able to walk the walk. It is something about their desires for pleasure that get in the way of remembering there are two players in the room and both really do want the same things. Oh and about the ladies taking hold of all of this, We are a big part of all this you are trying to share with men. We are the end result of what it is they are trying to learn. So the investment of what it is you are teaching is not just for the men and what they do with it,. But also for us women and what we do with it too! Because these are changes that will be experienced by us as well, we will need to be sure we are ready to welcome in this new man in our lives and what he has to offer with open arms. We do not want to scare them off or discourage them with the wrong reactions to their new ways towards us. We have waited to long to get the man of our dreams to be doing something that would warrant them off on the first try to express the changes and new expressions of love and intimacy they are trying to share with us. We are the ones thank you and our men for wanting to make the changes that will help make both our lives happier and better not just in the bedroom but in all we share together. So thank you to those of you out there listening to and taking the advice of Steve. We women are grateful I promise……..


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