Hey brother,
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Now onto today’s article…
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I’ve talked a lot lately about anger and how badly it can screw up your relationship.
You know by now that a pissy, angry guy is doomed to create a pissy, angry life everywhere he goes.
Women aren’t attracted to him. Kids are afraid of him. And dogs don’t trust him.
But forget about them for a minute. Think about what pissy anger does to you.
I know, it’s not like you WANT to feel pissy and angry. You wouldn’t pick this mood if you thought you actually had a choice, would you?
Or do you believe that anger (like shit) just happens?
Not quite, brother.
If you would rather feel calm and confident in your skin more often, I made this video for you.
In this video I explain the TRUE source of your anger and it ain’t pretty. It’s about a crappy movie that keeps playing in your head. It’s a movie YOU wrote.
And it happens in a NANO-SECOND and you barely stand a chance of catching yourself before it’s too late.
I give you the antidote here.
Your NATURAL state of being is “Okay”.
This is important so listen up.
It’s easy to forget you were ONCE a really calm, confident, happy person.
Yes, I know that about you. You’re actually OKAY and you always have been.
EVERY guy tells me, “I don’t know what happened! I USED to be confident and carefree and never really got rattled about anything. Now I feel like I’ve lost it!”
What happened?
Fear happened. Doubt happened. Getting attached to someone else’s opinion of you happened.
It made you conjure up ideas and “mind movies” that tell you you’re not okay.
That maybe you’re not good enough. You’re not lovable…and you just might wind up alone, in windowless van, down by a river…eating government cheese!
Yeah. None of that’s true is it? No, it’s not.
So how do you get your mojo back?
How do you learn to relax, calm down and start LAUGHING more at the idea that you’re not okay?
How do you take back your power to self-validate and feel confident in your own skin?
You do the work with other men who are in the same boat.
You spend focused, dedicated time with mentors who can help you rediscover the confident badass who is still inside you.
We want to meet you and show you how it’s done…
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- A lack of intimacy of all kinds is serious now and for the long term health of your marriage
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“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
