Hey brother,
In 1998 I came up with an argument for 3 times more sex than I was having at the time.
I actually had “data”. I did some research. Then I presented my bullet-proof case for increasing the frequency of sex by a factor of three!
How do you think it went?
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Yeah, not well.
Much to my surprise, “arguing for sex” wasn’t a thing. In fact, it’s hilarious when you think about it. It turns out the most un-sexy man in the world is the one who tries to “Perry Mason” himself into his wife’s pants.
That was a time when I thought every problem in my life could be resolved with logic, data, tactics and a really persuasive argument.
In other words, I spent most of my waking hours living from my head.
Nobody told me there was another way to live…and another important body part to use. I tell you which one in this video.
Why this matters to you
If you have been living from your head, this kind of stuff is going on for you:
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- You may frequently find yourself in stupid and unnecessary arguments.
- You may feel easily agitated, frustrated, disappointed and critical.
- You compare yourself to others, you keep score and you’re overly competitive…even with your wife.
- People may respect you…but they don’t easily confide in you.
The Benefits of Living from Your Heart
When you learn to live from your heart, this kind of stuff starts going on for you:
- People not only respect you, they trust you and seek you out for your wisdom and support
- Your normal state is relaxed, engaged, curious and amused…no matter what is happening around you. And you like yourself in this state.
- Your decisions are made with more clarity, confidence and consideration. You inspire others to follow and people trust your leadership.
- You develop deeper connections in all of your relationships because your presence, patience and compassion are magnetic!
How do you learn this stuff? Funny you should ask.
Join our community, work with Dan, I or one of our coaches and learn how to bring “open hearted leadership” into your relationship.
Our coaching is designed to totally change your perspective, thoughts and habits about your intimate relationship. You don’t control most of what happens to you in life. But you DO have control over your INSIDE game.
You will learn with others how to be the most open-hearted and most effective version of YOU.
Are you still reading? That means this might be for you!
What now?
Let’s talk.
If you feel like this just might be what you’re looking for, hit REPLY now and let’s chat. We can either chat in email or set up a time this weekend for a phone call.
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What do I mean by “SERIOUS”?
- We take YOU and your struggles seriously…because we’ve been there
- We know living in a sexless marriage is serious…and so is showing your kids what a healthy affectionate relationship looks like
- A lack of intimacy of all kinds is serious now and for the long term health of your marriage
- We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
- We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life
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As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
