I won’t beat around the bush. I haven’t been completely honest with you.
I’ll get right to it. Here are some of the little white lies I’ve been telling you:
I can tell you how to save your marriage
I can teach you how to get more sex – as much as you want
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I can help you make your wife happy
I can show you how to make your woman want you again
Those words are exactly what I was Googling years ago when I was in your shoes.
It’s called “Search Engine Optimization”. It’s exactly how my early coaches and mentors got me to click on their information. They baited me with key words and teaser tidbits that tickled my pain points and promised me what I thought I wanted. I remember one of the phrases I clicked on what “Nymphomanic Wife”.
Yeah. It worked.
I was Googling for what I thought I wanted and – along the way – I discovered what I really needed.
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It was that frantic, frustrated Googling that started my journey and likely how you wound up meeting Dan & I.
The truth is that while you may think you want to save your marriage, get more sex or make your wife happy…that’s NOT what you need.
A happy, healthy, intimate and sexual relationship isn’t a requirement to start with…it’s a RESULT.
It’s a result of BEING a healthy, happy and passionate man.
I go into greater detail in this video about what this change in thinking is all about.
The reason I pick those key words and phrases is because they are the thoughts already in your head. They are the words that get your attention and they are the words that worked on me.
The only reality I knew was that my sense of well-being, security and happiness was outside of me – in someone else’s hands. I believed my only option was to learn how to control or manipulate those outside circumstances.
It turns out that was total BS and a total waste of time. I would never get what I wanted by trying to change my outside circumstances.
What I want you to know is that by changing your inside circumstances your perception of your outside circumstances changes almost immediately. Your reality then changes too.
Yes, the objective facts haven’t changed, but your relationship to those facts, your thoughts and the meaning you assign to those thoughts can all change your experience of what’s happening.
This is the birthplace of your renewed sense of calmness, confidence and peace of mind. (aka. Mojo)
What are Inside Circumstances?
These are your thoughts. It’s your understanding of how life and relationships really work. It’s your deeper view into the cause of shame in women and men. And it’s your realization that – at your core – you’re actually okay.
Your inside circumstances are the only true source of your calm, clear, confident sense of well-being. And that’s a good thing because that’s all you can actually influence.
That’s what I needed to learn…even though it’s NOT what I was Googling for.
So, I apologize for the little white lies, but it’s the only way most men will start their journey – looking for something they don’t really need. No matter how much we WANT something, it will never satisfy us if it’s not what we need.
One of the most powerful insights I’ve ever had is:
You can never get enough of what you don’t really need.
Once a man begins to understand this at a deep level, the lights come on…one by one. And by changing his perceptions he changes his emotions…which change his responses…which create outcomes he never imagined possible.
Good outcomes. I promise!
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What do I mean by “SERIOUS”?
- We take YOU and your struggles seriously…because we’ve been there
- We know living in a sexless marriage is serious…and so is showing your kids what a healthy affectionate relationship looks like
- A lack of intimacy of all kinds is serious now and for the long term health of your marriage
- We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
- We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life
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As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
