10 Signs Your Marriage is in Big Trouble

I’m usually skeptical of “lists” that promise to give you the secret to anything.

They lack depth and explanation and aren’t immediately useful – just “click bait” to make you open the damn article.

Not so with the list in this video. In fact, there’s about 50 MINUTES of clear explanation with this list.

Two weeks ago I promised to share an interview with a “rock star couples coach”. I’m here to deliver.

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Bruce Muzik has been helping couples create a more connected, secure, happy and intimate life together for many years. He’s accumulated a wealth of insight and wisdom and I love his depth and the confidence with which he delivers it!

In this video we discuss:

• Insecure attachment and how it looks, sounds, feels and smells in your relationship
• The 3-Legged Race of Interdependence in a healthy relationship
• How your attachment style is screwing up your sex life
• Why “communication” is NOT the main issue in any relationship
• How to start creating better CONNECTION and stop the madness

There is so much content in this video I’m not going to type it all out in this article. Just watch it.

And if you want to hear the 10 Signs first – go to the 34:35 mark on the video…then start from the beginning.

I often coach men in the subtle art of just shutting the f*ck up.

This is right in line with Bruce’s point about needing to CONNECT more than needing to COMMUNICATE.

Most men I work with are brilliant, articulate, strategic thinkers and problem solvers. They are experts at analysis, decision making and solution implementation.

What happens when they try to bring these skills into a “relationship talk” with their woman?

Shit show…that’s what.

Why?

Because “communicating” and “problem solving” are not required to fix a relationship.

In fact, the more we try to manipulate or orchestrate an outcome – to FIX things – the more we create DISCONNECTION.

This is why I teach you to shut the f*ck up with all your brilliance. (this was my biggest hurdle, by the way)

What do you do instead?

You learn how to BE instead of always trying to DO.

You learn how connection is created with a woman and what positive, safe and attractive masculinity really looks like.

And guess what?

It’s a WHOLE LOT LESS WORK than what you’ve been trying.

Clients tell me how liberating it feels to be free from fixing things and finally free to just be quiet, aware, confident, present and connected.

A guy can’t do this if he’s disconnected from himself and his own calm sense of strength and quiet self-satisfaction.

My purpose is to create ARMIES of dudes like that – one man at a time.

If you want to move from distance and avoidance to connection and healthy interdependence in your relationship, we would love to help you get clear on your next decision or action to take to start CREATING that life that you truly want and know you WILL have.

What if this next year everything changed for you?

That’s what we want for you brother.

Books, articles and videos are great but to really make quick progress and get to a point where you’re consistently calm, confident and enthusiastic about life again you need other men who understand what you’re going through and who will challenge you to make the changes that you need to make. This is the truth that I want you to LEARN – this is the thing I had to learn first before I could grow in this way – you need other men to do this work!!

Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men’s Live Coaching Roundtable where we will help you re-find the confident, attractive man you know yourself to be.

Come and try our coaching through our Roundtable live coaching program here. There’s an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self-realization.

We love teaching men these tools – how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs.

Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.

If you want to become a man who knows and trusts himself to create the life and love he wants, apply for a free consultation call with me or Dan. I guarantee you’ll feel a whole lot better by the end of our talk.

My new book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.

I wrote a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage.

Steve Horsmon Certified Professional Men’s Coach

Steve Horsmon is a Certified Professional Life Coach and owner of Goodguys2Greatmen Relationship Coaching in Livermore, Colorado. He has appeared on many television, radio, youtube, and podcast channels discussing the coaching and psychology factors relating to maintaining healthy relationships. Steve provides personal, practical, action oriented coaching services for men through 1-on-1 coaching, private retreats, group coaching and workshops designed to give men new knowledge, skills and the right mindset to achieve their relationship goals. He is a committed, lifelong mentor for men who teaches his clients how to discover their masculine strength so they can confidently take the actions required to create the life and relationships that they really want. With over 10 years experience he has created thousands of videos and articles for well known relationship websites such as The Good Men Project, Medium and the Gottman Institute.

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