Hey brother,
First, don’t forget our group coaching call this week at 12pm mountain time on Thursday 5th September, the topic of the call is “How do I really know who I am?”
In this call we will address:
What are the best tools to get more clear and grounded in your sense value, self-respect and self-esteem?
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How do you get clear about who you want to BECOME?
We’re going to have a great conversation that’s guaranteed to help you feel more clear and more connected to the man you want to be.
If this call sounds interesting to you, join our Men’s Roundtable here.
(You’ll also gain access to 5 years of recorded previous group coaching sessions and our private Facebook community).
There’s a woo-woo Buddhist rule (The Second Noble Truth as they call it) that says:
All Suffering is the Result of Desire for Pleasure, Material Goods, and Immortality.
What the hell does that mean? And what are you supposed to do with this information?
I’ll break it down for you in plain language that any guy can understand.
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At the end of the day our suffering is all about desiring something from a place of scarcity and emptiness VS. desiring something from a place of abundance and fullness.
Still too woo-woo maybe.
Another way to say exactly what I mean is:
Once you become a man who feels okay about himself, his value, his dreams and his mission…you will stop suffering.
I don’t mean being full of yourself. I mean being full within yourself.
When it comes to relationship suffering, I know exactly where it hurts.
The deep yearning for connection – for touch – for appreciation – for acknowledgement and for sexual pleasure is normal and healthy.
I want those things too – as long as I can remember. And I SUFFERED a long time waiting and wondering why I felt so unsatisfied, nervous, frustrated and angry.
It was my internal sense of unworthiness and emptiness that made me suffer – not the people who refused to “make me happy”.
I explain more in this video.
The secret to ending suffering is realizing that we can never get enough of what we don’t really need to be happy.
When a man finally figures this out, his energy changes. He focuses on improving himself, his attitude, his mission and his mojo.
He is already full – already happy. Not “suffering” in the least.
He doesn’t wish he had more – he is determined to simply BE BETTER.
Guess what?
That’s the guy who ends up getting what he wants. What he desires finds him – he doesn’t need to go searching for it.
I know – I’m getting woo-woo again.
Bottom Line
When you stop frantically pursuing the objects of your desire and learn how they are attracted, it’s a helluva lot LESS WORK.
This is what we teach men through our Goodguys2Greatmen coaching programs.
Below are some options for you to get started right away…
Free: If you’re serious about building your masculine mojo then apply for a coaching call with us we will help you identify what to focus on and what to avoid to get you feeling confident again.
What do I mean by “SERIOUS”?
- We take YOU and your struggles seriously…because we’ve been there
- We know living in a sexless marriage is serious…and so is showing your kids what a healthy affectionate relationship looks like
- A lack of intimacy of all kinds is serious now and for the long term health of your marriage
- We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
- We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life
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As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
