Hey brother,
I work with a lot of men who are standing on the hairy edge of major decisions.
* Is this relationship worth saving?
* How do I know if I’ve done all I can?
The 3-Step Emergency Triage for You AND Your Marriage >>
* How do I know if it’s time to throw in the towel?
* How do I know if I’m ready for a new relationship?
* What if I make the wrong decision?
When you have this much doubt and uncertainty it is always caused by the same thing.
Lack of clarity.
And when you’re lacking clarity you find yourself in the same stupid arguments saying the same destructive things.
Free Guide: Where You Should Focus To Grow Your Masculinity >>
When you lack clarity you’re over-reacting to everything and riding the emotional crazy train anywhere it takes you.
When you lack clarity you feel out of control and fearful of every reaction and every consequence to any decision you make.
The huge mistake men make before deciding to stay, leave or start a new relationship is not getting CLARITY.
You know you have clarity when you are feeling calm instead of anxious.
You feel confident instead fearful.
Your words and your actions are more purposeful and deliberate.
No, you’re not an emotionless, robotic ass.
You’re actually more tuned in to your own emotions and empathetic toward the feelings of others.
You’re more aware of your intentions, your words and the impact you have on others.
Clarity gives you a peaceful sense of acceptance – even when you’re in a swirling cloud of sadness. Even when others have hair trigger tempers and the tension is thick and gooey.
THIS is where I want you to be before you make ANY major decision.
From here you will speak your truth, express your real feelings and make the best decisions.
From here…the consequences from the decisions you make are the consequences that are supposed to happen.
I explain this more in this video. (see if you notice the ghost horse stealing the scene)
How do you get clarity?
We get clarity through a commitment to discover ourselves.
I know…sounds woo-woo. It’s not.
I’m talking about discovering the real source of your fears.
Understanding the cause of your self-doubt and indecision.
It takes work with other men before light switches start going off – one after the other – and you start getting clear.
This happens because you are learning that you’re not alone in this mess. MANY men have walked this course before and there is a right way through it and a wrong way.
My mission is to teach you the right way.
Here’s one more piece of advice about being an clear, unapologetic man of value.
It used to freak me out to try to “sell you something” in these newsletters.
Too sleazy. I don’t want to drive you away.
Now I understand the critical importance of unapologetically standing up for I value, for what I believe and how I want to show up in the world.
A man of value doesn’t “sell” anything to those he wants in his life.
He gets clear on his value and he simply offers it to others without expectations or conditions.
He is independent from the outcomes.
He does this because he believes in himself and he’s clear about his mission.
I’m referring to you. ;^)
Are you ready to get clear? Below are some options for you to get started right away…
Free: If you’re serious about building your masculine mojo then apply for a coaching call with us we will help you identify what to focus on and what to avoid to get you feeling confident again.
What do I mean by “SERIOUS”?
- We take YOU and your struggles seriously…because we’ve been there
- We know living in a sexless marriage is serious…and so is showing your kids what a healthy affectionate relationship looks like
- A lack of intimacy of all kinds is serious now and for the long term health of your marriage
- We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
- We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life
Free Guide: Where You Should Focus To Grow Your Masculinity
$69 Monthly Subscription: Join Dan and I in our Men’s Roundtable Group Coaching membership. We meet three times per month for live group coaching and we support you in a powerful group of men facing the same issues you are. Get instant access to 5 years of recorded sessions. Try it for one month. What have you got to lose?
$397 One-Time Payment: How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is a self-paced course with me, Tim Wade, and a community of men learning how to lead when you’ve just heard, “I love you but I’m not in love with you” or “I want to separate or divorce.”
As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
