Hey brother,
I read something really funny the other day.
A man was asked, “What do you think the THREE most important aspects are in a good sex life?”
His answer?
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1. The proper length/girth ratio
2. Being able to last a minimum of 30 minutes
3. Is there a number 3?
This is funny because it’s not far from the truth in how many of us have traditionally measured sexual success and prowess.
But in my humble opinion, it’s the wrong measure.
We do this a lot.
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Like when it comes to measuring your MOJO.
I explain more in this video.
MOJO is an incredible cocktail of groundedness, mental clarity, emotional strength, calmness, confidence, self-respect and peace of mind.
And how have most of us traditionally measured MOJO?
With a “Femometer”.
This is a highly unpredictable gauge of feminine approval, respect, validation, trust and desire.
When you look at the “Femometer” for a measure of your MOJO you’ll notice the needle bounces around like a polygraph test.
And along with that needle, so goes your feeling of MOJO. It’s all over the place.
Don’t do that. Do this instead.
Create your own MOJOMETER. (noun: mo – JOM ‘ – eter)
The MOJOMETER is a highly accurate gauge calibrated by top members of the state and federal Departments of Weights and Measures, to be dead-on balls accurate. (My Cousin Vinny reference for my brother)
The MOJOMETER measures the health of your MINDSET, EATING HABITS, EXERCISE HABITS and SLEEP HABITS.
Do you see something they all have in common?
Yes, you have absolute and total control over these variables.
And the most important one of those four is MINDSET.
What thoughts are you choosing to think?
Who do you hang around to strengthen your mind?
What books are you reading?
What’s the miserable story in your head that’s creating the knot in your stomach?
This is the primary work we do with men in our coaching, our community of initiated men, our men’s retreats and our online courses.
We work on the fearful, angry, destructive thoughts that make men nuts. We look at the mythical stories we tell ourselves about what happiness, certainty and security really is.
We debunk the notion that our MOJO is measured by what people think of us or how our women are treating us.
We support each other in building a brand new perspective and a new thought process about self-respect, personal value and long-term happiness.
It’s your MINDSET that has the largest impact on your MOJOMETER.
Want to talk more about boosting your current MOJO level?
Below are some options for you to get started right away…
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What do I mean by “SERIOUS”?
- We take YOU and your struggles seriously…because we’ve been there
- We know living in a sexless marriage is serious…and so is showing your kids what a healthy affectionate relationship looks like
- A lack of intimacy of all kinds is serious now and for the long term health of your marriage
- We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
- We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life
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As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
