How to Become a Fearless Man

Are you looking for help on becoming a fearless man, or becoming a confident man, or overcoming your fears as a man in today’s society and difficult relationship landscape?

The message I have for you today is simple…


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It’s what separates those who “happen to the world” and those who “wonder what happened”.

It’s what separates engaged, happy men who live out loud and those who feel stuck in silence and darkness.

It’s what you need to take the next big leap in your life and relationship.

What would you do if you felt fearless?

What would you decide if you didn’t give a f*ck what anyone thought about it?

What if you were SURROUNDED by men like this in your life?

Steve and I are not here to console you or tell you how your childhood screwed you up.

We get what you’re going through because we’ve lived it too and we want to guide you down a different path.

A path that we learned through personal trial and error.

This path is what you’ve been looking for.

I know that’s a bold statement, but I stand by it because we are on a mission and you’re a key part of that mission.

We’re here to create leaders.

Leaders in marriages.

Leaders in parenting.

Leaders in the bedroom.

Leaders in the boardroom.

We want you to know how it feels when you finally step up and declare what you want to experience in this life.

It’s amazing how people respond to a man who unashamedly goes after what he wants.

“What would you do if you felt fearless?”

Seriously…what would you do?

What would you say that you wanted?

Do you even know?

When we first speak to men they often tell us things like: “I’d like to have a marriage that is less volatile” or “I’d like a family that were more supportive and respectful” or of course the biggie – “I don’t want to be rejected every time I initiate sex or affection!!”

And we say…“OK, and what else?”

Then we hear things like “I want more quality, connected time with my kids” or “I want to see enthusiasm in her eyes when I get home” or “I want a raise and to be listened to at work.”

“OK, and what else…be specific.”

THEN we start getting to the REAL stuff.

“I want to be woken up by her taking me into her mouth.”

“I want my stomach to hurt from laughing too much.”

“I want to sail around the world.”

“I want to be proud of who I’m being in the world.”

And we say “F*ck yes, I want to help you make that happen.”

You see we may be life coaches or mens coaches or masculinity coaches, but really what we are is your guide to becoming a man who happens to the world, not a man who is constantly preparing for the worst so he doesn’t get sh*t on again.

What I know and want to explain to you is that your compass is a few degrees out.

You may believe that you just need to find the right approach, the right combination of kindness and love and THEN everyone will respect you and appreciate all that you do for them.

Just today I spoke with a man who told me “I got up early, drove over to her house, cleared her drive of snow” and all she could say was “Why did you pile it there?” I mean c’mon “WTF!”

Yep, his compass needed a little calibration.

I asked him “Why? Why did you do that?”

And that’s all the recalibration he needed.

“Because I care and that’s what I do for people I care about.”

That’s it.

Nothing more.

The mistake we make is calibrating to what we DO instead of WHO WE ARE.

An easy way to know if your compass needs some calibration…

Answer this question: Who are you as a man?

If you don’t KNOW your answer to that immediately, you need some calibration.

If you’re not clear on your WHY’s, then you’ll be living to other people’s REASONS and then left confused as to WHY you aren’t feeling confident in yourself EVERY DAY.

We want to meet you in person. We want to help you get that compass calibrated so you KNOW without a seconds doubt what action you want to take in every moment and essentially WHY.

The Men’s Live Coaching Roundtable is a powerful collection of men from around the world working together to transform themselves and their relationships. Steve and Dan lead this community with 4 other professional coaches. We have live coaching video calls three times per month. The camaraderie in this group is something missing from the lives of too many men in the world.

Our online course How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is a deep and intense dive into handling yourself when you hear, “I love you but I’m not in love with you anymore.” Tim Wade and I host monthly live Q&A calls with all the students in this course which includes many other bonuses as well. Find out more here.

We love teaching men these tools – how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs.

What if this next year everything changed for you?

That’s what we want for you brother.

My new book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.

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Dan Dore Certified Professional Men’s Coach
Dan Dore is a certified professional Men’s Coach specialising in helping men who are struggling and feeling unhappy and unfulfilled i their life and relationships. With over 20,000 hours experience coaching men to completely resolve their self-esteem and confidence issues and improve their ability to create emotional connection, build trust, earn respect, and lead the sexual intimacy and affection in their relationship whenever they want. No more fearing rejection or other people’s opinion of you - I want to help you finally be happy in yourself and trust your ability to create anything you want in your future.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is our coaching right for you?

Our coaching process was created for men who want to feel happier and more fulfilled in their life and relationships. We teach you how to have more confidence and clarity about what you want in your life and create an action plan to start making it happen.

Do you only work with men in marriage?

While our coaching teaches you how to create a more connected, more fun and passionate marriage, we also work with you to have more clarity, enthusiasm and fulfillment in all areas of your life. We help you understand what you really want your future to look like and we also teach you how to be in control of your emotions so that you can be confident and assertive no matter how difficult your circumstances are right now .

What happens in the free 90-minute coaching call?

In our free initial coaching calls, we listen a lot, we ask you questions to understand what life is really like for you at the moment, we help you identify what you want to be different and what's holding you back from creating those changes now. Then we help you create a practical plan of action to start moving forward straight away.

What will I learn in your coaching programs?

We take you through a process to:

  • Stop being tentative and become more focused and directed.
  • Develop control over your thoughts and emotions like never before.
  • Become a master of the masculine and feminine dance required for a more passionate connection in your romantic relationships.
  • Build and sustain your personal masculine confidence so that you don't get "triggered" or feel disrespected and can respond with strength and confidence to any situation.
  • Become more connected, aware and present with everyone (this is a critical step in your ability to build attraction and desire as well as have people trust you and respect you more).
  • Stop the destructive emotions of anger and resentment which keep you going around in frustrating cycles and start from moving forward with purpose.
  • Stop being anxious, needy and overly reliant upon other people's opinions and approval of you and start feeling more peace, happiness and a deep sense of being a man who is confident in himself again.
  • You will become a confident man who knows his values, what he wants and where he’s going in his life.
  • You will learn how to think, speak and act according to your values without worrying about reactions from others.
  • You become clear and confident in your ability to create intimacy whenever you want.
  • Your confidence will be something that you start to rely on and trust in every part of your life.

How does the Men's Roundtable work?

Our Men's Roundtable membership gives you access to 3 live group coaching calls per month hosted by Steve and Dan as well as access to over 5 years of previously recorded group coaching calls, an invitation to our private facebook group, and ongoing assignments and resources to help you grow and develop as a confident masculine man. It's like having a personal coach in your pocket, ready to help whenever you need it.

What's the difference between the 1-to-1 coaching and group coaching?

Firstly, anyone who is in our 1-to-1 coaching program automatically receives access to the Men's Roundtable membership and group coaching for free for life. The difference between 1-to-1 and group coaching is down to the speed of change that you want to happen. With more personal time and attention from your coach, the 1-to-1 program is adapted to your specific circumstances and will provide the practical advice you need to know what to think, say and do to create what you want your future to be.

What kind of man is right for your coaching?

We work with men who are willing to take the lead in creating the changes they want in their life and relationships. We only work with men who want to understand their fears, insecurities and shame triggers. We teach you practical ways to deal with the mental and emotional challenges life throws at you and help you reach an unshakeable confidence in yourself (often for the first time in your life).

  • You won’t find negative, hateful language.
  • You won’t find a gender war – we don’t bash women.
  • You won’t find bitching, whining, complaining, and blaming.
  • You won’t find a group of men acting like victims.
  • You won’t find judgment or criticism from others.

We don't waste our time with all those things because we want to take the most efficient and effective path to creating the future you want. So we focus only on the things that are within your control: your thoughts, your words and your actions.

How do I know if I need coaching?

If you are feeling unhappy a lot of the time, if you're lonely, drained, lost, stuck or trapped, then our coaching will help. If you're not sure where your life is headed, if you're not confident in yourself, if you're not sure what you really want in life anymore...our coaching will help.

Whether it’s your job, your intimate relationship, or just wanting to feel more happy and with more purpose, then our coaching will help.

If you are tired of settling for a mediocre life or relationship, tolerating criticism and a lack of fun and intimacy and you're done with placating and playing it safe, then our coaching will help.

We will help you have clarity about what you're REALLY passionate about. We'll get you clear about where you want to be in six months and in six years. We help you figure out what you really want to create vs what other people think you should do.

We help you take action, get unstuck, start moving forward. We help you find what matters instead of just "being busy" in the daily grind. We help you figure out how you're going to get from where you are now to where you want to be.

For many of the guys we work with, they find a peace and a sense of emotional freedom that has them shaking their heads and smiling at how they used to approach life. They feel passionate about life again. They build stronger relationships with the people that matter most to them. They feel satisfied and fulfilled that they have finally found the “right path” forward and life starts to feel fun and inspiring again.

So now you've read that...what do you think? Would YOU like to try some of our coaching for free?

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