Can You Fix A Broken Marriage and Sex Life?

Many men come to us to learn how to fix a broken marriage. They imagine their marriage is a V-8 engine. Maybe it has a bad spark plug..?  Would you get a new engine or replace the spark plug?

If you’re anything like me, the answer is “Hell yes”! If changing a spark plug would fix a broken marriage I’d do it! (And I’d change the oil and air cleaner while I’m at it)

And therein lies the problem…I’m a “fixer”! How about you?

Well, no mechanic should work on an engine (much less a marriage) until he understands how the engine works. Check out the video further down. I did another interview with Silke Schwarzkopf. I promise you’ll gain some new understanding from her feminine perspective.

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I love to troubleshoot, analyze, dissect and solve problems. And because I’ve gotten pretty good at it, I tend to see every problem as “fixable” with enough focus, time and elbow grease.

What about your wife, marriage and sex life?

Are you thinking externally about this issue?

Thinking that a quick error code check and a tune-up should whip everything back into shape?

Yeah, I’ve been there…done that. Doesn’t work. Why?

I Can Fix Anything – Why Can’t I Fix A Broken Marriage?

Because you have to understand the SYSTEM of what you’re working on before you can improve it.

Ever see a guy who knows nothing about cars pop the hood and start banging on things? Well, I kind of did that in my 28-year marriage.

I didn’t understand REALLY how it all worked. I didn’t know why I would wind up so incessantly frustrated and resentful that I couldn’t “fix” it.

I recently did a series of videos with a really great lady named Silke Schwarzkopf with 2nd Act TV.

She wanted to know all about what I teach guys. I think she was a little skeptical at first. (She asked me about my relationship with “The Red Pill” movement)

Take a look for yourself. It was a great conversation. I’ve got two more of these to share with you later.

YouTube video

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If you have something to add to the conversation, leave a comment for Silke. She always replies and will appreciate it.

And if it’s really personal, you might feel more comfortable having a private conversation with me or one of our certified coaches.

By this time you know how I feel about the importance of MEN talking with other MEN. We say “Mountain lions need other mountain lions to become even better mountain lions.”

These free consultations are always mind-blowing. This is our favorite reaction.

“I’m not sure what I expected for our call, but holy crap, I got way more out of this than I expected. Why are men NOT being taught this stuff in grade school?!”

What stuff? Here are some video highlights:

  • Why I can’t stop helping men like you (like me) 1:45
  • The things wives say that make us start Googling like mad at 3:00am (these are warning signs too) 2:25
  • GG2GM vs. Red Pill Theory (this is important) 4:00
  • Why you can’t fix a woman like a John Deere tractor 7:15
  • The things your dad never told you about women 8:15
  • The only course online that teaches you How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb and keep your self-respect intact! 9:30

I just scratch the tip of the iceberg in this video. There’s so much more for you to learn. Let’s have a conversation! You can’t fix a broken marriage like a John Deere tractor but you can understand what’s really going on. Nothing can improve until you gain this understanding. I’m here to give you the tools you need to change the rest of your life.

Lets go to Contact Page on my site.

Fill out the unusually personal questions. (just answering these is an exercise in clarity)

Be honest. Be thorough.

Let us show you something you didn’t expect.

That’s a promise.

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Steve Horsmon Certified Professional Men’s Coach
Steve Horsmon is a Certified Professional Life Coach and owner of Goodguys2Greatmen Relationship Coaching in Livermore, Colorado. He has appeared on many television, radio, youtube, and podcast channels discussing the coaching and psychology factors relating to maintaining healthy relationships. Steve provides personal, practical, action oriented coaching services for men through 1-on-1 coaching, private retreats, group coaching and workshops designed to give men new knowledge, skills and the right mindset to achieve their relationship goals. He is a committed, lifelong mentor for men who teaches his clients how to discover their masculine strength so they can confidently take the actions required to create the life and relationships that they really want. With over 10 years experience he has created thousands of videos and articles for well known relationship websites such as The Good Men Project, Medium and the Gottman Institute.
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