In today’s article I want to help you avoid some of the most common and detrimental mistakes men make when noticing some unsettling behaviours in your wife.
Here’s the situation:
- She’s become totally detached, emotionally numb, depressed and disengaged from the marriage.
- She’s been unusually reactive, critical, argumentative and/or unkind.
- She’s “wants space” and has even stepped away from her typical engagement with the kids, friends and family
and…
- You are feeling just as sad, anxious and confused as she is.
- You are chasing her for connection, explanation and reassurance many times a day.
- You are feeling off-balance, like you’re walking on eggshells and are apologizing for almost everything.
I got a little amped up in my video below as I talk about this.
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No need to watch the video, just listen to it like a podcast.
If this is your current reality, it’s time to do something you’ve never tried before.
The best way to get her attention is to become profoundly okay in your own skin.
The most common emotional disease for a man in your position is INSECURITY.
It’s a chronic lack of self-esteem, self-respect and self-confidence.
It’s indecisive, apologetic and deferential.
And it feels like constant pressure, anxiety and uncertainty.
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Guess what.
She can feel every molecule of your insecurity.
She wants to feel something else. She wants to feel your strength.
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- A lack of intimacy of all kinds is serious now and for the long term health of your marriage
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“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
