Fixing a sexless marriage is something we work on every day in our coaching programs with men.
Falling In Love Is Easy. Staying In Love and Keeping the Passion and Intimacy Alive, That’s The Hard Part
Sex is an incredibly important way for couples to have fun together, to build trust and emotional connection. If there’s very little or no sex in your marriage, rest assured there is help and there is hope!
We deal with these questions and many more just like them about sex and intimacy in long term relationships all day, every day.
Yes a sexless marriage can survive
First things first, a sexless marriage can survive, although it’s hard to find information and statistics about how many sexless relationships survive and recapture their spark.
From years of coaching men in sexless marriages, we know that it’s absolutely possible to revive the passion between you and sexless marriages certainly do not all end in divorce (although sometimes that’s the right choice to make after you’ve exhausted all other options).
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Sex issues in a relationship are complex. So many personal behaviour and self worth issues are involved. Then throw in a lack of education and modelling of good relating skills and you can easily understand why we end up in a dance of avoidance, walking on eggshells, building frustration and resentment.
But over and over again I see that both partners really want the same thing – a loving, connected, trusting, affectionate marriage – they just need some help and support to understand how to get there.
Getting help and support for your sexless marriage is especially important when you both seem to have different levels of interest in sex. Distress, resentment, loneliness and a sense of betrayal or lack of care and consideration can slowly erode the trust and affection between you which, if not addressed, will seriously impact the chances of your marriage surviving long term.
The first step to fixing or repairing your sexless marriage is admitting that there is a problem. The path to becoming a confident, happy and sexually satisfied lover starts with accepting the truth of where you are right now and not ignoring it or avoiding it anymore.
Whether you consider a low-sex or no-sex marriage an issue is something that you and your partner will need to discuss and find agreement on in terms of wanting and being willing to reignite this part of your relationship.
Signs that you may be in a low-sex relationship or sexless marriage
- You aren’t having sex regularly with your wife
- One of you has developed feelings for someone else
- Other parts of your life take priority over your relationship and intimacy
- You’ve given up trying to be attractive for each other
- You go to bed at different times
- Your sex life is non existent
- You don’t ever talk about sex
- If you do talk about sex it becomes an argument and ends in more distance, sometimes for days or even weeks
Sexless marriage coaching & support for men
If you’re unsure whether you need a coach, a sex therapist, or couples therapy, arrange a free consultation call with us – it’s not a sales call, it’s a free 90 minute coaching session.
We have a core principle of being honest and only working with men who are ready to take the next step in developing their self confidence. If we think you would be better served by a different type of coach or therapist, we will tell you that, advise you on the reasons and explain the kind of experience that you should be looking for in another coach or counsellor.
