The Secret to Creating a Happier Marriage (and Life)

What is the secret to creating a happier marriage and life? This is the fundamental problem that I see most men struggling with in their relationships at home, at work, with family and friends…everywhere!

If there’s one thing that I get asked over and over it’s this…

“I understand the concepts that you talk about in your videos and articles, but I just need practical tips to implementing it.”

So today I want to give you a glimpse into what it looks like to be the “Great Man” that we coach men to be.

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When we first start talking to a man, he’s usually got a clear idea of what he DOESN’T want, and often he is reasonably clear on what he DOES want.

The piece that’s missing is the HOW.

How do I get there???

Whether it’s to do with your life purpose and mission, your relationship, your career or health issues, most guys know that they’ve reached a point of being unhappy that they’re no longer willing to accept.

How do I re-attract her?

How do I stop the downward spiral?

How do I have more sex?

How do I bring more connection and affection into my life?

How do I avoid divorce?

How do I save my marriage?

How do I stop giving a f*ck and create the future I REALLY want?

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Maturity is when you stop complaining and making excuses, and start making changes
~ Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

The HOW of becoming a great man isn’t difficult to grasp…

Get clear on what you want and start heading toward that, making decisions every day that move you closer to those experiences.

The problem is, to be able to consistently make those decisions and take that action…you have to become a new man.

A man who is thoroughly enjoying his life whether she’s a part of it or not.

A man who knows his value in the relationship and calls out anything that questions it.

A man who clearly knows his standards for what he expects to experience in his life and who no longer accepts anything less.

A man who loves being himself.

A man who speaks his mind.

A man who trusts that he can and will create a life filled with deep conversations, laughter, love, connection, fulfilment, passion and lots and lots of sloppy, gooshy sex.

A man who has options and is enthusiastically looking forward to the opportunities in his future.

A man who is no longer afraid.

Every time you hold yourself to being this version of you, your internal voltage goes up, you start feeling the mojo we’re always talking about, you feel that sense of masculine confidence and self respect return.

It starts to become your natural state rather than an occasional experience.

When you do this work, you start asking POWERFUL questions of the people around you.

You don’t hold back.

You clearly communicate where you’re headed by the intention in your words and the conviction in your voice.​​​​​​

You challenge others to join you in a deeper way of living life.

You don’t wait. You lead the process.

Your clarity on WHO YOU ARE is the most important thing and that’s how it should always be.

You have to make that your number one priority and hold yourself to bringing that person to every situation.

You can only receive what you want when you know that you are worthy of receiving incredible love, affection, respect and adoration.

A powerful, magnetic man isn’t just being in control of your emotions and physicality, it’s openness and vulnerability, living what you think and feel unapologetically.

So my question for you is…

Do you take up the challenge to learn how to live a life filled with inspired action where you know exactly who you are and where you’re headed and every step is intentionally creating the experience you want?

I see the amazing changes this process has on men every day, in every area of their lives, not just their relationships.

In our coaching we take men through an intense program to become the man you were always meant to be. It’s a process of rediscovering your enthusiasm for life and it changes who you are as a man

Some ways for you to get back that old swagger and mojo are:

The Men’s Live Coaching Roundtable is a powerful collection of men from around the world working together to transform themselves and their relationships. Steve and I lead this community with 5 other professional coaches. We have live coaching video calls twice per month. The support and camaraderie in this group is something missing from the lives of too many men in the world.

We love teaching men these tools – how to be better, how to know who you are, own your power, know what you want and know how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs.

What if this next year everything changed for you?

That’s what we want for you.

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Dan Dore Certified Professional Men’s Coach
Dan Dore is a certified professional Men’s Coach specialising in helping men who are struggling and feeling unhappy and unfulfilled i their life and relationships. With over 20,000 hours experience coaching men to completely resolve their self-esteem and confidence issues and improve their ability to create emotional connection, build trust, earn respect, and lead the sexual intimacy and affection in their relationship whenever they want. No more fearing rejection or other people’s opinion of you - I want to help you finally be happy in yourself and trust your ability to create anything you want in your future.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is our coaching right for you?

Our coaching process was created for men who want to feel happier and more fulfilled in their life and relationships. We teach you how to have more confidence and clarity about what you want in your life and create an action plan to start making it happen.

Do you only work with men in marriage?

While our coaching teaches you how to create a more connected, more fun and passionate marriage, we also work with you to have more clarity, enthusiasm and fulfillment in all areas of your life. We help you understand what you really want your future to look like and we also teach you how to be in control of your emotions so that you can be confident and assertive no matter how difficult your circumstances are right now .

What happens in the free 90-minute coaching call?

In our free initial coaching calls, we listen a lot, we ask you questions to understand what life is really like for you at the moment, we help you identify what you want to be different and what's holding you back from creating those changes now. Then we help you create a practical plan of action to start moving forward straight away.

What will I learn in your coaching programs?

We take you through a process to:

  • Stop being tentative and become more focused and directed.
  • Develop control over your thoughts and emotions like never before.
  • Become a master of the masculine and feminine dance required for a more passionate connection in your romantic relationships.
  • Build and sustain your personal masculine confidence so that you don't get "triggered" or feel disrespected and can respond with strength and confidence to any situation.
  • Become more connected, aware and present with everyone (this is a critical step in your ability to build attraction and desire as well as have people trust you and respect you more).
  • Stop the destructive emotions of anger and resentment which keep you going around in frustrating cycles and start from moving forward with purpose.
  • Stop being anxious, needy and overly reliant upon other people's opinions and approval of you and start feeling more peace, happiness and a deep sense of being a man who is confident in himself again.
  • You will become a confident man who knows his values, what he wants and where he’s going in his life.
  • You will learn how to think, speak and act according to your values without worrying about reactions from others.
  • You become clear and confident in your ability to create intimacy whenever you want.
  • Your confidence will be something that you start to rely on and trust in every part of your life.

How does the Men's Roundtable work?

Our Men's Roundtable membership gives you access to 3 live group coaching calls per month hosted by Steve and Dan as well as access to over 5 years of previously recorded group coaching calls, an invitation to our private facebook group, and ongoing assignments and resources to help you grow and develop as a confident masculine man. It's like having a personal coach in your pocket, ready to help whenever you need it.

What's the difference between the 1-to-1 coaching and group coaching?

Firstly, anyone who is in our 1-to-1 coaching program automatically receives access to the Men's Roundtable membership and group coaching for free for life. The difference between 1-to-1 and group coaching is down to the speed of change that you want to happen. With more personal time and attention from your coach, the 1-to-1 program is adapted to your specific circumstances and will provide the practical advice you need to know what to think, say and do to create what you want your future to be.

What kind of man is right for your coaching?

We work with men who are willing to take the lead in creating the changes they want in their life and relationships. We only work with men who want to understand their fears, insecurities and shame triggers. We teach you practical ways to deal with the mental and emotional challenges life throws at you and help you reach an unshakeable confidence in yourself (often for the first time in your life).

  • You won’t find negative, hateful language.
  • You won’t find a gender war – we don’t bash women.
  • You won’t find bitching, whining, complaining, and blaming.
  • You won’t find a group of men acting like victims.
  • You won’t find judgment or criticism from others.

We don't waste our time with all those things because we want to take the most efficient and effective path to creating the future you want. So we focus only on the things that are within your control: your thoughts, your words and your actions.

How do I know if I need coaching?

If you are feeling unhappy a lot of the time, if you're lonely, drained, lost, stuck or trapped, then our coaching will help. If you're not sure where your life is headed, if you're not confident in yourself, if you're not sure what you really want in life anymore...our coaching will help.

Whether it’s your job, your intimate relationship, or just wanting to feel more happy and with more purpose, then our coaching will help.

If you are tired of settling for a mediocre life or relationship, tolerating criticism and a lack of fun and intimacy and you're done with placating and playing it safe, then our coaching will help.

We will help you have clarity about what you're REALLY passionate about. We'll get you clear about where you want to be in six months and in six years. We help you figure out what you really want to create vs what other people think you should do.

We help you take action, get unstuck, start moving forward. We help you find what matters instead of just "being busy" in the daily grind. We help you figure out how you're going to get from where you are now to where you want to be.

For many of the guys we work with, they find a peace and a sense of emotional freedom that has them shaking their heads and smiling at how they used to approach life. They feel passionate about life again. They build stronger relationships with the people that matter most to them. They feel satisfied and fulfilled that they have finally found the “right path” forward and life starts to feel fun and inspiring again.

So now you've read that...what do you think? Would YOU like to try some of our coaching for free?

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