Hey brother,
The other day a man I met told me an embarrassing secret.
“I feel respected, appreciated and admired just about everywhere else in my life…except when I get home!”
He is normally a confident, high-achieving and successful man. Can you relate?
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He has worked hard to earn what he has. He has mastered his craft and is highly knowledgeable and skilled. He is regarded as credible, dependable, reliable and trustable. He experiences a high level of respect and admiration from his colleagues and employees.
And, in his work life, he is easy-going, likeable, light-hearted and generous with his kindness, thoughtfulness and friendship.
Annnnnnd at home…not so much.
At home he feels less important and less appreciated. His super powers at work don’t seem to count for as much at home.
And when she’s mad or upset, he tends to feel her emotions as judgments of him. He mistakes her complaints as criticism and her anger as disrespect.
Here’s the dirty little secret.
He’s quietly afraid of her.
He fears her ability to make him feel small and inadequate.
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He fears the possibility of abandonment.
In other words, he simply fears that she can hurt him.
And it’s this fear that makes him think, say and do the very things that make his marriage miserable. It’s this fear that is the most reliable prediction his marriage won’t last.
So what’s the solution?
I made a video about that.
One of the best predictors of a happy, confident partnership is a happy, confident husband.
When we fear we’ve lost power, we will feel driven to compete.
When we fear being attacked, we will feel driven to defend.
When we fear abandonment, we will feel driven to say or do anything to prevent it…feeling weak and inadequate every step along the way.
Our mission has always been to help you understand there is a MUCH BETTER GAME available to you.
- It’s the game of learning how to build massive personal confidence in your ability to lead the positive energy in your relationship.
- It’s the game of learning how your sense of COMPASSION and your sense of HUMOR are your “super powers” in building trust and connection.
- It’s the game of creating a partnership where you BOTH can feel a sense of personal power, respect and appreciation.
Yeah, it’s not hard. And, it’s a LOT more fun than any other thing you may have been trying.
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As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
