How To Save Your Marriage If Your Wife Wants Out

When you’re desperate to save your marriage there are some actions you can take that make things worse and others that will start to turn things around.

3 Common Myths That Won’t Save Your Marriage

A lot of men come to us with their “hair on fire,” waking up at 3 am with a horrible, urgent, and unquenchable need to do something RIGHT NOW. We know what that’s like, we have been in that state.

There are so many things you could try in order to “fix” your marriage but unfortunately, most of them will just make things worse. And this nagging fear keeps hounding you — fear that it’s all slipping away and there’s nothing you can do about it.

We’ve discovered THREE COMMON MYTHS ABOUT DIVORCE which drive that fear.

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Once we dispel these myths you will:

  • Begin to see the bigger picture and know that you will be okay
  • Learn how to use “quietness” to your advantage and instantly feel more calm and grounded.
  • Feel more confident by changing the scary story in your head about how badly your future will suck.

We made this video for you to discuss this a little deeper. CLICK ON THE VIDEO LINK BELOW to learn more about the ineffective thinking that may be causing a lot of your fear and anxiety.

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The 3 BIG MYTHS That Most Men Believe When She Pulls Away from the Marriage

How To Get Your Calm, Relaxed Mojo Back

In the How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb course and community, we take a unique approach to getting your confidence, self-respect, and MOJO back. This is the only way a man can calmly and confidently lead his marriage back on track.

“I’m all alone.” “I can talk my way through this”. “This will kill me and ruin my family”. Marriage recovery can’t develop if those beliefs are smoldering under your skin.  There’s a new way to think about your relationship and to think about her that breeds unbridled love, playfulness, and an inviting masculine frame. Men who have already walked this road can guide you there.

How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb

An In-Depth, Laser-Focused, Intensive Designed To Give You Back Your Masculine Confidence, Clarity, Peace, Happiness, and Mojo When Your Marriage Is On the Rocks

Click HERE now if you want to see the WHOLE OFFER and watch free sample videos and get started in calming yourself down.

PS. Here is one of the questions we often get about the HDDB program:

How Can I Know If It’s Already Too Late For Me?

Good question. Defusing your particular divorce bomb may not be possible. It’s could be that your wife is so emotionally and mentally unhealthy that she’s entirely unwilling and incapable of being the partner you want in your life. It’s also possible she is so totally done and checked out that she has a brand new life planned that doesn’t include you.

And it’s possible that YOU may become so clear and confident in what you expect of yourself and for yourself that you’re the one who decides to let the bomb go off.

The bigger point is this. If your instincts tell you there is something still worth working for then you must do this work. And guess what? We know that even if your chances of saving this version of your marriage are low…you must do this work! Every single man we coach who has done this work and wound up divorced discovers something amazing. He doesn’t die! Not only that…he thrives like he never imagined.

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Steve Horsmon Certified Professional Men’s Coach
Steve Horsmon is a Certified Professional Life Coach and owner of Goodguys2Greatmen Relationship Coaching in Livermore, Colorado. He has appeared on many television, radio, youtube, and podcast channels discussing the coaching and psychology factors relating to maintaining healthy relationships. Steve provides personal, practical, action oriented coaching services for men through 1-on-1 coaching, private retreats, group coaching and workshops designed to give men new knowledge, skills and the right mindset to achieve their relationship goals. He is a committed, lifelong mentor for men who teaches his clients how to discover their masculine strength so they can confidently take the actions required to create the life and relationships that they really want. With over 10 years experience he has created thousands of videos and articles for well known relationship websites such as The Good Men Project, Medium and the Gottman Institute.
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