After All The “Work” You’ve Done…Why Aren’t Things Awesome Yet?

Hey brother,

You’ll notice these words I’m typing are often the same words you’ll hear in the video.  Everyone has different learning preferences.

So pick your learning style now…reading, watching or just listening.

I’m going to explain why, after ALL THE WORK YOU’VE DONE, things may STILL not be as totally awesome as you were expecting.

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A good friend of mine is dating a woman who claims to be suffering from her last relationship.  She got dumped by a guy and she claims to have some trauma related to that. 

She’s a full-time yoga teacher, meditator, mentor, mushroom voyager, voracious reader and dedicated “breath worker”.

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She’s like a lot of the men who first come into the GG2GM community and start “doing the work”.  She believes that by pouring on MORE WORK she will eventually unscramble her monkey mind and start to feel clear and normal again.

Doing nothing at all…that’s what.

Why is this true?

Because for most people, all of that “work” is keeping you from being who you really are.

You’re not a drama filled, anxious, indecisive man. You just THINK you are.  So stop trying so hard.

Stop “working” so hard.

Stop distracting yourself with activity that is keeping you from simply sitting quietly, calmly, and peacefully saying out loud…“You know what?  I’m actually okay.  She’s okay.  We’re going to be okay.”

Why does that help? 

Because it’s true. 

It’s time to give yourself some grace, some space, some patience, some humor and some fun.

You’re not broken, so just stop trying to fix yourself.

Stop trying to manipulate and control future outcomes over which you have no control. 

When you stop working so hard, you finally start thinking more clearly, speaking your truth more boldly and taking courageous actions you’ve been afraid of.  It’s THIS stuff that actually changes your life.

This is a life skill.  It’s what we teach men who are ready to do just enough work to learn the truth about themselves, their marriage and their future.

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As Teddy Roosevelt said: 

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.” 

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Dan Dore Certified Professional Men’s Coach
Dan Dore has been a professional Men’s Coach specialising in helping men who are lacking confidence, unhappy and unfulfilled in their life and relationships. Dan has 10 years experience coaching men to improve their self-confidence issues and improve their ability to create more emotional connection, more trust, more respect, and to learn how to lead the sexual intimacy and affection in their relationship whenever they want. If you're tired of dealing with rejection and criticism, Dan will help you challenge the current status, stand up for what you want to change and finally be happy in yourself and your ability to create the kind of connection and passionate life that you really want.
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