Do You Feel Powerless In Your Marriage?

Feel powerless in your marriage? Every day I speak to successful men, great fathers, fit & healthy, but with no confidence in their intimate relationships.

Here’s some background about the video: I shot it to give you immediate support and perspective for maintaining your solid sense of manhood. It’s actually a “coaching video” custom-made for you if you want it.

Sometimes I’ll paraphrase the videos I shoot so you can read it instead.

Not this time. I just let it fly in this video in a stream of consciousness. I speak fast and furiously. It wouldn’t be the same if I typed it out.

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I use the phrase “real man” cautiously.

While There Are Many Forms Of Masculinity, I Believe The Most HEALTHY Masculinity Is A Matter Of Who You Are BEING

So many caricatures of manhood have been shown in the TV and film world. You may think it’s an “act”. You may think it’s a style or persona. You may think there’s a script.

I believe the foundation of a cool, calm, strong, capable man is based first in his ability to model kindness, compassion and respect.

That’s the first bit of coaching I give in this video when I explain what LEADERSHIP means when you’re a healthy man.

Then I give you the next 3 key traits of a healthy, “real” man.

I hope you enjoy it as much as it did shooting it..

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The Clarity I Have To Be The Man I Want To Be Can Be Your Clarity Too

I know what you’re thinking. “I don’t need no stinkin’ coach!”

I’ve had a number of coaches in my life. Soccer, basketball, lacrosse and baseball were my sports. (note these all involve short sprints…short legs)

I even had a speaking coach and a training coach when I was doing teaching in the corporate world.

The idea of a “Man Coach” or “Relationship Coach” would have made me laugh out loud back then.

If you ever wondered what personal coaching felt like, looked like or sounded like, this video is a good example.

Actually, we tend to listen more than we talk.

We listen to you YOU, your story, your challenges and your biggest desires. Then we ask you questions nobody has ever asked. Then we help you see a clear path to getting what you want.

I’m inviting you to a conversation to feel what it’s like when YOU are the center of attention. Your needs and your fears. Your desires.

It’s the deepest, most powerful and most intimate conversation you’ll have all year.

You’ll wonder why you can’t talk like this with your wife. You’ll wonder why you haven’t been this open and emotionally raw with your kids.

Most guys say our deep-dive consultations are more valuable and ACTIONABLE than years of therapy or marriage counseling.

And that feels really good.

And I know you’ll like it too. ;^)

There you go. A shameless invitation to connect with you. No strings. No expectations. Just brotherhood and service.

Living by my own set of rules. Boundaries. Non-negotiable terms and expectations of myself and for myself. These have made me into the man I want to be. I can show you how to do the same. The ball is in your court to reach out.

You can submit the Contact Form if you want to personally experience what powerful coaching really is.

P.S. My book, Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband drills a hole in your head and reveals all the thoughts you’re having about marriage and then it tells you what to do next! Click that link to get it.

Here’s what a recent reader said:

“Reading this book was as if someone had been following me and writing down everything going on with my marriage and my mind. Great solutions for big problems.”

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Steve Horsmon Certified Professional Men’s Coach
Steve Horsmon is a Certified Professional Life Coach and owner of Goodguys2Greatmen Relationship Coaching in Livermore, Colorado. He has appeared on well known coachign and psychology television, radio, youtube, and podcast channels related to maintaining healthy relationships. Steve provides intensely personal, action oriented coaching services for men through 1-on-1 coaching, private retreats and workshops designed to give men new knowledge, skills and mindset to achieve their relationship goals. He is a committed, lifelong mentor who teaches his clients to discover their masculine power, take bold action and create the life they want. He has written articles and guest blogs for numerous relationship and expert websites.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is our coaching right for you?

Our coaching process was created for men who want to feel happier and more fulfilled in their life and relationships. We teach you how to have more confidence and clarity about what you want in your life and create an action plan to start making it happen.

Do you only work with men in marriage?

While our coaching teaches you how to create a more connected, more fun and passionate marriage, we also work with you to have more clarity, enthusiasm and fulfillment in all areas of your life. We help you understand what you really want your future to look like and we also teach you how to be in control of your emotions so that you can be confident and assertive no matter how difficult your circumstances are right now .

What happens in the free 90-minute coaching call?

In our free initial coaching calls, we listen a lot, we ask you questions to understand what life is really like for you at the moment, we help you identify what you want to be different and what's holding you back from creating those changes now. Then we help you create a practical plan of action to start moving forward straight away.

What will I learn in your coaching programs?

We take you through a process to:

  • Stop being tentative and become more focused and directed.
  • Develop control over your thoughts and emotions like never before.
  • Become a master of the masculine and feminine dance required for a more passionate connection in your romantic relationships.
  • Build and sustain your personal masculine confidence so that you don't get "triggered" or feel disrespected and can respond with strength and confidence to any situation.
  • Become more connected, aware and present with everyone (this is a critical step in your ability to build attraction and desire as well as have people trust you and respect you more).
  • Stop the destructive emotions of anger and resentment which keep you going around in frustrating cycles and start from moving forward with purpose.
  • Stop being anxious, needy and overly reliant upon other people's opinions and approval of you and start feeling more peace, happiness and a deep sense of being a man who is confident in himself again.
  • You will become a confident man who knows his values, what he wants and where he’s going in his life.
  • You will learn how to think, speak and act according to your values without worrying about reactions from others.
  • You become clear and confident in your ability to create intimacy whenever you want.
  • Your confidence will be something that you start to rely on and trust in every part of your life.

How does the Men's Roundtable work?

Our Men's Roundtable membership gives you access to 3 live group coaching calls per month hosted by Steve and Dan as well as access to over 5 years of previously recorded group coaching calls, an invitation to our private facebook group, and ongoing assignments and resources to help you grow and develop as a confident masculine man. It's like having a personal coach in your pocket, ready to help whenever you need it.

What's the difference between the 1-to-1 coaching and group coaching?

Firstly, anyone who is in our 1-to-1 coaching program automatically receives access to the Men's Roundtable membership and group coaching for free for life. The difference between 1-to-1 and group coaching is down to the speed of change that you want to happen. With more personal time and attention from your coach, the 1-to-1 program is adapted to your specific circumstances and will provide the practical advice you need to know what to think, say and do to create what you want your future to be.

What kind of man is right for your coaching?

We work with men who are willing to take the lead in creating the changes they want in their life and relationships. We only work with men who want to understand their fears, insecurities and shame triggers. We teach you practical ways to deal with the mental and emotional challenges life throws at you and help you reach an unshakeable confidence in yourself (often for the first time in your life).

  • You won’t find negative, hateful language.
  • You won’t find a gender war – we don’t bash women.
  • You won’t find bitching, whining, complaining, and blaming.
  • You won’t find a group of men acting like victims.
  • You won’t find judgment or criticism from others.

We don't waste our time with all those things because we want to take the most efficient and effective path to creating the future you want. So we focus only on the things that are within your control: your thoughts, your words and your actions.

How do I know if I need coaching?

If you are feeling unhappy a lot of the time, if you're lonely, drained, lost, stuck or trapped, then our coaching will help. If you're not sure where your life is headed, if you're not confident in yourself, if you're not sure what you really want in life anymore...our coaching will help.

Whether it’s your job, your intimate relationship, or just wanting to feel more happy and with more purpose, then our coaching will help.

If you are tired of settling for a mediocre life or relationship, tolerating criticism and a lack of fun and intimacy and you're done with placating and playing it safe, then our coaching will help.

We will help you have clarity about what you're REALLY passionate about. We'll get you clear about where you want to be in six months and in six years. We help you figure out what you really want to create vs what other people think you should do.

We help you take action, get unstuck, start moving forward. We help you find what matters instead of just "being busy" in the daily grind. We help you figure out how you're going to get from where you are now to where you want to be.

For many of the guys we work with, they find a peace and a sense of emotional freedom that has them shaking their heads and smiling at how they used to approach life. They feel passionate about life again. They build stronger relationships with the people that matter most to them. They feel satisfied and fulfilled that they have finally found the “right path” forward and life starts to feel fun and inspiring again.

So now you've read that...what do you think? Would YOU like to try some of our coaching for free?

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