Men have a way of judging the quality of their day by what has happened in their day.
If “things are going our way”…it’s a “good day”. If they’re not…it’s not.
Sometimes we use our “feelings” or even our physical state to decide whether or not our day sucks.
And when it comes to your intimate relationship, a “good day” happens mostly when she’s happy, and more importantly, happy with you!
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If a man waits for a “good day” based on his wife’s state of happiness with him, he will mostly likely have a very bad year.
And he will likely “think” his marriage sucks.
Watch my new video for a new perspective about shifting your perspective. This is a critical man skill, brother.
To be more childlike, you don’t have to give up being an adult. The fully integrated person is capable of being both an adult and a child simultaneously. Recapture the childlike feelings of wide-eyed excitement, spontaneous appreciation, cutting loose, and being full of awe and wonder at this magnificent universe.
~ Wayne Dyer
Your Assignment for the next 7 days…
- Be more child-like.
- See the humor in everything.
- Find the lightness in anything that appears to be dark.
- Don’t believe your own bullshit thoughts or your own silly feelings. Choose to see the softness and the pain in those who piss you off.
- Be kind to yourself and do something nice for just you.
And STOP this stuff…
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- Stop looking for what’s wrong…find what’s right.
- Stop allowing sucky thoughts to create a sucky day.
- Stop assuming the worst in others…give automatic benefit of the doubt.
Here’s another way to not have a sucky day…ask for some support from someone who has walked in your shoes and found the way through the mess…
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- We know living in a sexless marriage is serious…and so is showing your kids what a healthy affectionate relationship looks like
- A lack of intimacy of all kinds is serious now and for the long term health of your marriage
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As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
