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  • stop being needy
2311, 2021

Stop Being Needy And Instantly Become a More Attractive Man

By |November 23rd, 2021|Categories: Communication, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

Why is it so hard to stop being needy?  If you're in a relationship that's struggling, where there's been infidelity or a lack of affection, intimacy or sex, then I know you know exactly what I mean.  All you want is to fix the problems, reconnect and live the happy, sexual marriage you always dreamed of...what's wrong with that??! But, and this is so important when we're talking about attraction [...]

  • wife doesn't love me
1211, 2021

Save My Marriage My Wife Is Pulling Away From Me

By |November 12th, 2021|Categories: Communication, Divorce, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , , , |

Are you noticing a difference in your relationship recently? Does it feel like your wife is pulling away from you? Is she creating distance and asking for space? I remember how alone I felt when I heard the words. "I just don't feel in love or attracted to you anymore. I'm not sure we ever had that kind of connection." It was like I was the only man in the [...]

  • being defensive kills her attraction to you
1111, 2021

My Wife Called Me Controlling

By |November 11th, 2021|Categories: Communication, Divorce, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships, Sex|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , |

You're not alone, almost every man I speak to says at some point "My wife called me controlling" and this causes us men great confusion. Here's an example from a recent conversation... John: "I want to talk about last night." Emily: "Oh, here we go again." John: "What? You don't need to be like that!" Emily: "Come on then, what is it?" John: "I just want to create more closeness [...]

  • Avoid divorce
2410, 2021

How to Avoid Divorce With Masculine Leadership

By |October 24th, 2021|Categories: Communication, Divorce, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

Are you dealing with a marriage that is lacking affection? Are you constantly worried and have a knot in your gut because you're scared and trying to avoid divorce? Two years ago I spent an intense hour talking with a frantic guy who was facing divorce. I never heard from him again…until this week. His email was fairly short and to the point. “I talked to you probably 2 years [...]

  • Being a strong confident man
1410, 2021

What Is Being A Strong Man?

By |October 14th, 2021|Categories: Communication, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

What does "Being A Strong Man" mean in work, in society but especially in a long term, committed, romantic and struggling marriage? How do you learn how to be a man who thrives in a deeply rewarding relationship with a woman? A lot of men are confused. Be sensitive Be a strong man Take the lead Don’t be controlling Be you ​​​​​​​Don't be a narcissist Be considerate Know what you [...]

  • wife doesn't want sex with me
2309, 2021

I Hate My Wife But I Still Love Her and Don’t Want to Divorce

By |September 23rd, 2021|Categories: Divorce, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

I know...you just typed in "I hate my wife" into Google and you feel like crap both for thinking it, feeling it and admitting it. I've been where you are brother and it sucks. So here's a story from one of the men I've been coaching who's in a very similar situation to you too... Fred was arguing with his wife...again. He was driving home and thought he would call [...]

  • GG2GM Live Tribe Online Men's Group
1109, 2021

FREE Live Tribe Brotherhood Group Calls

By |September 11th, 2021|Categories: Marriage, Relationships|

It's a very simple concept. Men need other men for support, guidance, encouragement and brotherly love. Period. And especially when sh*t hits the fan...say... like a global pandemic, we need each other more than ever. That's why we are continuing our free, live men's group support Zoom calls for connection, conversation, sharing and laughing. Every week, one of our coaches from all over the world will be hosting a [...]

  • happier marriage
1009, 2021

The Secret to Creating a Happier Marriage (and Life)

By |September 10th, 2021|Categories: Communication, Divorce, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

What is the secret to creating a happier marriage and life? This is the fundamental problem that I see most men struggling with in their relationships at home, at work, with family and friends...everywhere! If there's one thing that I get asked over and over it's this... "I understand the concepts that you talk about in your videos and articles, but I just need practical tips to implementing it." So [...]

  • Wife Says I'm Pushing Her Away
2208, 2021

My Wife Says I’m Pushing Her Away

By |August 22nd, 2021|Categories: Communication, Divorce, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , |

Sometimes I have to write an article title that says EXACTLY what's going on in your house and if you're reading this right now I know that you've already typed in "My wife says I'm pushing her away"...but what does that mean? How does it happen? And when all you want is your wife to move back toward you...what are the things to avoid doing that are pushing her away [...]

  • my wife doesn't want me
1808, 2021

My Wife Doesn’t Want Me to Touch Her Anymore

By |August 18th, 2021|Categories: Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships, Sex|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

I know what it's like to be thinking "My Wife Doesn't Want Me" and just how hard it is to be in a committed romantic relationship with someone who is keeping you at arms length all the time. Here is the most common answer to question #1 on my application for free coaching consultations. The question is: In the next 6 months, what changes do you MOST want to see [...]

  • wife doesn't want sex with me
3107, 2021

My Wife Said I’m Insecure and Need to Be More Confident

By |July 31st, 2021|Categories: Communication, Divorce, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships, Sex|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

Hey brother, I see you Googling "My wife said I'm insecure" and I wrote this article just for you (because I've been where you are right now...) There's a common story that we hear over and over again from married men that contact us...it sounds like this... "I've been following you guys for a while and I'm just finally realising something, you talk about being confident, knowing your masculine power [...]

  • When was the last time you had sex with your wife?
3007, 2021

How Long??? (Since You Had Sex With Your Wife)

By |July 30th, 2021|Categories: Communication, Divorce, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships, Sex|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

It's been how long since you had sex with your wife??? It's the shameful story running over and over in your head and it's eating away at your confidence. You're feeling more and more frustrated and desperate every day this goes on...I get it brother, I've been there too. It's 6:30am. You've been having some sexy dreams...or not. But still you're waking up with that all too familiar hot [...]

  • Wife Said She Doesn't Need Sex
1407, 2021

My Wife Said She Doesn’t Need Sex

By |July 14th, 2021|Categories: Communication, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships, Sex|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

Has your Wife Said She Doesn't Need Sex? You may also be hearing "you're needy", "I don't like being touched", "All you ever think about is sex" and there's a distinct lack of basic affection in your relationship.  The good news is that here's a well known reason behind this behaviour (it relates to your attachment style which I wrote about here.) Now this article is bound to tick off [...]

207, 2021

Should I Leave My Sexless Marriage?

By |July 2nd, 2021|Categories: Communication, Marriage, Relationships, Sex|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , |

Are you questioning whether to leave your sexless marriage. Maybe you're wondering whether your partner has a low sex drive. Or perhaps you've heard the question, "Is sex so important to you that you would leave me and our kids?" Bill and Sarah were at it again...over the last 15 years it seemed this conversation had no end. But that didn’t stop Bill from trying. Bill: “We can’t just keep [...]

  • Wife Acting Like She's Not Married
2506, 2021

Is Your Wife Acting Like She’s Not Married?

By |June 25th, 2021|Categories: Communication, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , |

Is Your Wife Acting Like She's Not Married? She's never interested in talking or spending time together and affection is non-existent or cold and functional... What are you to do when your marriage no longer feels like a marriage? This story may sound familiar. Act married? What the hell does that mean? I'll tell you. It's my article, so I get to define it. Marriage is, by my definition, a [...]

  • disconnected wife
2206, 2021

My Wife Has Disconnected From Our Marriage

By |June 22nd, 2021|Categories: Divorce, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , |

Are you feeling like your wife has disconnected from your marriage? I speak to a lot of men who are unhappy and in pain because of the state of their intimate relationship. Men who are dealing with the pain of lack of connection and affection, lack of attraction and desire, lack of trust and respect, impending divorce or separation... I'm also very lucky to speak to a lot of men [...]

  • have more sex
2206, 2021

How to Build More Intimacy In Your Marriage

By |June 22nd, 2021|Categories: Communication, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships, Sex|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , |

Do you want to know how to build more intimacy in your marriage? This was the continually repeating question in my head during my 28 year marriage.. I recently read about a study on the LiveScience website titled, “Women Prize Men Who Try to Understand Their Emotions”.  My first reaction was, “Well, no kidding!”.   But as I read a little further and understood the nature of the study, one conclusion [...]

  • frustrated husband
2206, 2021

Stuck In a Sexless Marriage?

By |June 22nd, 2021|Categories: Communication, Divorce, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships, Sex|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

Are you stuck in a Sexless Marriage? Are you wondering what's the point and questioning whether your only choice for passion and intimacy is to find a different woman? A while back I heard from a woman who was absolutely stunned by her husband’s “cluelessness”.  As you might guess, building sexual intimacy is extremely difficult with a “stunned woman”.  Good news!  YOU have a tremendous personal ability to prevent “Stunned [...]

  • Wife wants a divorce
1305, 2021

My Wife Wants a Divorce

By |May 13th, 2021|Categories: Communication, Divorce, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships, Sex|

Have you just heard that your wife wants a divorce? Maybe you're unsure if that's what she wants but it's what you're afraid is true. Steve and I recently ran a free Goodguys2Greatmen Live Tribe call on the topic of being a Happily Divorced Man (you can access these recorded sessions by joining our Roundtable membership). A happily divorced man (HDM) is a concept we talk about a lot in [...]

  • Improve Your Marriage
1105, 2021

How to Improve Your Marriage

By |May 11th, 2021|Categories: Communication, Divorce, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships, Sex|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

We speak to me who want to know how to improve their marriage, but one of the most common things we hear them say when they first contact us is "My wife is unhappy but she doesn't know what she wants. What can I do?" If a woman knows what she wants then she's probably heading toward it and she'll let you know. If she doesn't know, then she's probably [...]

  • More Sex in My Marriage
1105, 2021

How to Have More Sex in My Marriage

By |May 11th, 2021|Categories: Communication, Marriage, Masculinity, Relationships, Sex|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

If there's one question that I hear from men all the time it's "how to have more sex in my marriage" and I get it, who doesn't want to know the secret to attracting her and having more fun and affection? Let me be clear. It's perfectly NORMAL to desire sex with your woman. It's perfectly HEALTHY to engage in frequent and mutually satisfying sex. And It's perfectly ACCEPTABLE make [...]

  • how to recover your failing marriage
905, 2021